POSTED: Sat, 10/30/2010 - 1:37pm
HEALING
Decided to start a new thread and am calling it HEALING.Why?Your prayers and support have done wonders for people I know.And you are needed again.One of my closest friends has learned that his sister has a virulent type of Breast Ca.Love and good health to all of you.OXO Jean
Vintage1944
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 1:25pm
Great News
My sister Lorraine came through her knee surgery very well.Yay!!Marilyn
POSTED: Thu, 05/10/2012 - 4:43am
Lorraine
Give her my best wishes for a speedy recovery. xxVintage1944
POSTED: Thu, 05/10/2012 - 8:17am
Soul Sister
Thanks for the good wishes for Lorraine.I will tell her.OXOKimberly
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 6:36pm
I am glad your sister ....
came through everything so well. I wish for her to recover quickly and begin enjoying life again. Tell her we are all praying for her speedy recovery.Vintage1944
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 8:04pm
Hi Kim
many thanks for your good wishes.Talked with her and she is a bit grmpy,a good sign.LOL.oxobren67
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 1:43pm
So glad for her!
My husband had to have a complete knee replacment a few years back,he done fine,just remember to do the exersize and therapy sesionsVintage1944
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 8:07pm
Hi Bren
I will tell her and leslie(who had hers one last year)is going to Miami to help her out.Good to know your husband has done well.oXOAva
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 1:41pm
Excellent news Jean!
Wishing her a speedy recovery xVintage1944
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 8:05pm
Hi Ava
Thanks so much.oxoVintage1944
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 7:26pm
Very sad and painful day
I had to have my beloved Mackie put to sleep.It was time.But oh it hurts.I feel lost.It was the right thing to do,yet the hardest thing.OXOVintage1944
POSTED: Tue, 05/08/2012 - 5:58pm
MacKie
Brought his ashes home today.A strange feeling but it does help to have his ashes near.Missing the dear little fellow.OXOKATHYH
POSTED: Wed, 05/09/2012 - 6:14am
MacKie
Oh Jean it must feel good to have some part of him back near you. We buried our little dog(Tinker) in our yard either way a part of them is near.Kimberly
POSTED: Tue, 05/08/2012 - 8:33pm
I hope you will find peace.
:)Vintage1944
POSTED: Tue, 05/08/2012 - 9:27pm
Thanks Kim
I am feeling better.oxoVintage1944
POSTED: Tue, 05/08/2012 - 9:27pm
Thanks Kim
I am feeling better.oxobren67
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 11:58am
I know your pain...
We had to put down my little shi zue Dude a few years ago,and i felt so lost without him,but after a few months,i found my little Sweety,and she is so dear to me.. But i do understand your pain,it is such a loss,as they do become family members,we had Dude for 17 years..prayers ar with you my dear.... BrenAva
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 10:51am
Jean
So sorry to hear that. It's always a great loss when you lose your best four legged friend. It's kinder to know that Mackie is no longer suffering and is now at peace. You'll have many fond memories and photos to look back at with love and affection.Marilyn
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 9:19am
Jean
I feel for you as I know how you loved that little scamp. I have sent you an email. Take care. xxxKimberly
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 7:33am
I'm sorry Jean
I had to have my little Dachsund, Simon, put to sleep a few years ago. It was very sad. As we live in the country, we always bury our pets out in the pasture or something. The day he was put to sleep, my father and Simon's best friend, Tom the cat, went out and buried him. My mom said my dad cried and he never does that. Pets become very dear parts of our family and it is difficult to let them go. I try to make myself feel better because I know I give my pets the very best life I can and it is a blessing that we can save them from suffering. As for the loss, it will take time to be okay with it. I am sorry you had to make the decision, but now Mackie does not have to suffer. ((HUGS)) KimberlyKimberly
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 7:33am
I'm sorry Jean
I had to have my little Dachsund, Simon, put to sleep a few years ago. It was very sad. As we live in the country, we always bury our pets out in the pasture or something. The day he was put to sleep, my father and Simon's best friend, Tom the cat, went out and buried him. My mom said my dad cried and he never does that. Pets become very dear parts of our family and it is difficult to let them go. I try to make myself feel better because I know I give my pets the very best life I can and it is a blessing that we can save them from suffering. As for the loss, it will take time to be okay with it. I am sorry you had to make the decision, but now Mackie does not have to suffer. ((HUGS)) Kimberlymiamoki
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 8:55pm
So sorry!!
Jean you sure have had a rough year so far! My goodness! I don't even know where to start! May it comfort you to know that your baby is in a better place and you did the right thing. I had to do that with my chocolate lab last year and it's never easy, but when the vet told me it was the only humane thing to do I said ok. I already knew it but it didn't help ease my pain. It is just going to take time. I'm sure he had a great life with you and is smiling down on you from doggie heaven. (((((((hugs))))))) to you my friend. How is your sister? I saw that post but I haven't had time to get back to these boards. Geez. When it rains it pours! I told you - you need to throw those pennies or something!!Vintage1944
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 9:33pm
Thank you so much
It is never easy to do the right thing.But he was ready and let me know.He is now my angel.My sister is home and doing well. OXO
kit
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 7:37pm
Ohhh Jean,
My heart breaks for you on so many levels. Our pets are really angels in animal form and you did the right thing of course. I hope some GOOD news comes your way very soon. I lost a Mackie too many years ago, a Bearded Collie who was our sons' dog. Since then, Gizmo who found us and a silly little pug mix, Chica. We lost these 2 the same year. We have 12 year old Ginger currently. I know her day will come all too soon. May your heart heal. xoxoVintage1944
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 8:42pm
Thank you dearest Tina
You know the pain.My sweet boy is at peace now.I will so miss him.oxokit
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 11:30pm
Many hugs to you...
Sadly one day we see too much pain in their eyes or watch them struggle to stand up and know it's "time". But such a disconnect with our hearts. They give us unconditional love,but loving them means doing what is necessary. After we lost the second of the two dogs, my daughter-in-law surprised me with an adorable shadow box with funny pics of them and their dogtags. I burst into tears when I saw it because I was so touched. Even my husband got misty. Couldn't the Lord have compromised a bit, dogs barely get a dozen years, sea turtles can live to be 100! On a brighter note, so glad your sister is home! xoxomiamoki
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 12:29am
Aww how cute!
When we had to put down our chocolate lab last year it just happened to be the Monday of the week when my daughter had to take her entrance exam for high school. That dog was her BABY! I had to go pick her up from school and it was all I could do not to blurt it out right there in her classroom. My husband said for me to be strong but as soon as I got her in the car I lost it. She made it through her exam with flying colors and then when we got home from the exam, there was a sympathy card from the vet!! We all just cried together but we knew that she was taken care of by a very special person. Imagine that in this day and time when people can't even be bothered to return a phone call! I'm teary eyed just writing this! Yes that's why we have to enjoy them and spoil them as much as we can when they are here :)kit
POSTED: Fri, 05/04/2012 - 11:00pm
Yes I look at it everyday,
I know what you mean. They say the family dog dies about the same time the kids head off to college. Mackie had to be put down a few months after my younger son started college and my older son,in the Navy, was due home for a visit. The first thing he asked at the airport was "how's my dog" even though I'd been telling him the end was near. He lost it, as did we. Now he has his (annoying)beloved Beagle, Spike, and when he comes home from deployment,they can't stay apart. Sigh...coco1960
POSTED: Thu, 05/03/2012 - 5:54am
Dear Jean
Please take care of yourself...How is your sister doing ? Are you still headed to NYC this weekend ?Vintage1944
POSTED: Sun, 04/22/2012 - 2:20pm
Dearest Village
You are all wonderful.Thank you for your kindness and support.OXOkit
POSTED: Mon, 04/30/2012 - 10:28pm
The "Village"....
Is here for you Jean. You are in our thoughts xoxo